Kerja jodoh bukan kuasa kita. Jodoh kuasa tuhan. Sebab tu kita tak boleh jamin, the one yang sedang couple dengan kita tu adalah jodoh kita. Tak kira la dah berchenta kenal lama sejak zaman lahir pun, tapi kalau kata dah tak berjodoh tu tak boleh nak buat apa.
Dan tak semestinya hari ne kita keseorangan tak berteman, tak bermaksud jodoh kita lambat lagi. Jangan pulak makan hati tengok kawan kita sorang-sorang amek turn mendirikan rumah tangga. Jangan pulak berfikir kerut dahi, bila pulak turn kita nak sampai kan?
Kuasa tuhan. Kita tak tau cepat atau lambat. Kita taktau siapa yang akan jadi peneman hidup kita.
Kita hanya boleh berdoa banyak-banyak, semoga jodoh yang Allah tentukan tu adalah yang terbaek untuk kita.
Let me give real example. I have a friend. I knew her since Form 1, 12 years back. I knew all about her love life. I dah bercouple dengan dua orang berlainan but she still with the same guy. During my Engagement Day, she still talk about the same guy. But, they broke up finally after that.
When both of us car pool to Hana's reception on 1 June, she've been worried that she might getting married late. Her parents are worried too.
A week after that, I received a phone call from her, telling me that she's getting engaged next week. Oh my god, my first question to her was, 'Dengan sapa? Kami kenal dia ka tak?'. And her answer was, 'Kami pun baru ja kenal dia'.
After the Engagement, I called her to get an update. And she suprised me again with, 'Kami nak nikah raya ke-3 nanti'. Not that I terkejut dia nikah dulu dari I, just that, is she the same girl who talked how worried she is that she had not idea when her day will come. Again, kuasa Tuhan, kita semua tak dapat nak jangka.
Apparently, both newly wedd known each other for 2 months. Envy them, dapat rasa manis berchenta selepas kawen. We dont really need years to know each other before decided to get married. When the right people come at the right time, we will know it. Just like that.
I am definitely happy for both of them. I pray that they have a blissful marriage and all the great things come along their way.
Ma, sangat happy that finally you met the right guy. Mmmuaahhx..mmuuahhhx
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