Orang-rang tua selalu berpesan, dugaan bertunang sangat hebat. Sebab tu dipesan jangan bertunang lama-lama. Syaitan nye efforts berganda-ganda cuba nak pecah-belahkan pasangan yang nak mendirikan masjid. Kalau di awal pertunangan dulu, I can say semua okay. Maklumlah, I was still in the state untuk lebih mengenali pasangan. Pernah kawan-kawan bertanya, 'macam mana dengan dugaan bertunang?'. And I can proudly said, 'Alhamdulillah, everything went well'.
When the big day is approaching, about 2months from now, stress level mencanak naik. Im in a position whereby I agreed with almost everything. Dah tak sanggup nak pening kepala fikir design dais, fikir hantaran nanti macam mana dan I memang 100% serahkan pada yang pakar. If previously, I want to deco my own guestbook table but now I dah sub kepada the talented person. Sebab I dah tak mampu nk fikir,taknak serabutkan kepala lagi. Money? Still an issue for me. Pray hard duet segala bagai cukup.
My bertandang reception at KL was scheduled on the 25 Dec (X-mas Day) but FPIL decided to bring it a day forward due to some reasons. So, there it is, bertandang is on 24 Dec. I already booked the MUA for 25th, and bad luck my MUA not available on 24th. I have to let go that MUA and my deposit also burn unless ada replacement. So, to those yang nak kawen pada 25Dec 2011 dan belum lagi ada MUA,please consider my MUA. Hehe. And again I kena serabut kepala fikirkan MUA on 24th. I've been interested with Nurul Syuhada Nurul Ain's MUA. Jumpa her contact number at Renee's blog, straight away called her and betapa kecewanya I sebab Kak Laila tak available on 24th. Sobs. I.z pulak tiba-tiba bagitau yang his mom dah booked MUA for me. As for now, I redha, go with the flow dan terima any MUA. I dah taknak stress fikir dah. I always trusted I.Z's mom punya taste so I wont think much.
I supposed to have the fitting session after Raya. But, I dont know how I can miss it until the tailor itself called me. So, I will go for a fitting next week and hope all my bajus turn out well. And my body still in shape as per measurement last 2 months.
It can be concluded that preparation for Kedah's side almost 95% completed. And now, memang tengah focusing on KL's side preparation. Bulan October nanti memang kena start all out, termasuk settled legal documents for nikah, kad kawen, baju untuk majlis bertandang dan semuanya lah. Masa makin suntuk and I envy those yang ada banyak masa untuk prepare for their wedding.
Bila stress semua benda nak kena fikir dan penat..I tend to be easily temper. Yang mana sangat tidak bagus in any relationship. Pray hard that everything went well dan kalau boleh nak cepat-cepat nikah. Jadi, dugaaan yang paling besar, iaitu dugaan syaitan dapat dielakkan.
Ya ALLAH, permudahkan lah segalanya. Moga kami berdua berada dalam lindungan Allah s.w.t.
Amiin~
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