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I'll be getting married in less than a month. Fuhh~ 



Lots of the things settled already, except the legal stuff. Heh, I am supposed to be going back to my hometown this week. But I have to go to Bintulu & Kuching for work this Monday-Wednesday. Am thinking of taking extra leave on 29th of November,so that I can settle the Nikah procedure thingy but I have to organize a training on 30 Nov & 1 Dec. I don't think my boss will happily give a green light.


I'll be in the office for 9 days only before I start my long marriage leave. But, there are lots of things to be settled. I need more hours in a day. Hmmm.. When I really said, 'I need more hours in a day' I will straightly remember that Albert Einstein did have the same hours like us, but he still can survive and he is somebody okay, as compared to me. So, the key word here is, TIME MANAGEMENT. Ne tidak, pantang free sikit main Fruit Ninja sampai lenguh tangan. Pastu claim nak more hours, tak sedar, tak reti bersyukur kan? Heheeee, I need the positive pills.Please please, time management is essential. :)




Currently, I've been packing my stuff, because I'll be moving out to a new house soon. Yahoo~
And I've been packing my stuff at the office too, as my department will be moving out to new tower. Huh, lots of packaging-thingy lately.




Then, I'd already terminated my gym membership. December should be the last month for me to fully utilize all the gym's facilities. Honestly, I really enjoy going to the gym, especially the BodyJam class, the sauna & steam. Oh my, I am going to miss it. One thing, all members at the gym have the same mission, to keep fit & healthy. So, kalau rasa tak confident bila lepak dengan kawan-kawan sebab kawan-kawan kau semua body cun, tapi tidak kalau di gym. Sebab takde sape nak cakap, 'Eh, gemuknya minah yang kat treadmill tuh'. I feel secure there. Tapi kalau naek treadmill yang depan sekali, then after 5minutes you stop memang segan kot nak turun pandang muka semua orang. Haha, that is how I motivated myself. 
BUT..due to certain reasons, I can't commit myself. The fee is getting higher, approximately RM200/mth. I usually going to the gym after work. And sometimes the BodyJam class start at 7.40pm and it is an hour class. Being a wife later, I dont really think my future husband expected his wife reaching home at 9pm. So, I bulat hati terminated the membership. I'll find other ways to keep fit & healthy. Ceewah~


Dulu-dulu, I talk to myself, a month before the wedding day I nak relax and prepared mentally for the marriage life. Like, read lots of kisah isteri nabi and learn how to cook. I really want to be a good wife. I bukan sahaja nak prepare dais I design pe, baju color pe je.. I want to be mentally & physically ready. And now, banyak benda yang perlu settle dan memerlukan perhatian lebih. Jadi, haruslah pandai bahagi masa.


I'll be getting better in time. InshaAllah :)

Preferences

Going to a new place for vacation always such a troublesome. Atleast for me. Hehe. So, currently I've been surveying the best hotel for honeymoon. It need lots of hardwork. Firstly, it is important to compare the price with other website. From my experience, Agoda.com always offer the best price among all. Kan? Kan?

Secondly, I mesti nak baca review from other customer. Sangat penting, especially review from Malaysian jugak. The one thing I noticed, Malaysian nye review mesti sebut pasal tempat makan. Samada tempat makan jauh sangat, makanan tak sedap, makanan mahal, etc. Haha. I came across this one review from Malaysian, despite of the room is so small, no handtowel provided, lift is so slow, she still rated the hotel 4 out of 5 just because the buffet breakfast was yummy and lots of halal/delicious food nearby hotel. Being Malaysian, memang suka makan. If from other countries, they always concerned about the receptionist staff and room condition.

My concern is on the non-smoking room, the environment around the hotel, the breakfast is included-must be halal too (I always love breakfast at the hotel,sangat variety), easy access to public transport and atleast provide the basic amenities. And I tak bole duduk dalam bilik without window, so that room must have window. Tak kisahlah view ape pun, so long I bole nampak luar I am more than happy. Dapat view pantai or city tu adalah bonus. Hee. For those yang pernah pergi Vietnam mesti noticed masa nak book hotel, mesti ada mentioned bilik ada tingkap or tak. Sebab mostly bilik memang takda tingkap and they will charged higher if you request for a room with window. But based on my experience, kalau pergi Ho Chi Minh, bilik takde tingkap pun takpe sebab I was once requested a room with window but end up I can't see any nice view except the wall of next building.Tahulah Ho Chi Minh, bangunan rapat-rapat, pastu tak lebar, tapi memang tinggi-tinggi. Tanah memang kecik, that's why semua buat building tingi-tinggi.

Ho Chi Minh City 2010.. Crowded gilaa kan?

Hmmm..then when I dah finalized which hotel is under 'To be considered' I have problem to decide which one to choose. I hate myself, for taking about a week to actually decide a hotel. Haha. Orang kedekut, cerewet tak tentu pasal memang suka menyusahkan diri sendiri. Heh.

Forgive-Forget

What a challenging week for me :(


With the reception dress turn to disastrous. And how the tailor don't really care with my opinion/comments.
And 'he' kept on saying, "chantek..chantek.." whathefish? I am the one who will wear that dress kot.
Seriously, I cant sleep the whole night. After thoroughly thinking, discussions, my fiance and I decided to make a whole new dress for the Kedah reception. Not exactly a dress, because time is not permitted so I have to go for kurung modern as for the reception outfit. Tak sempat dah nak patch lace bagai. Redha. I know it will turn out to be so simple and the guests yang datang mungkin lagi vogue dari pengantin tetapi apakan daya, as long as I am confident enough with what I'm wearing, I believed it will still be my day. Pray hard, everything will turn out well.




Forget about the negative vibes yang keep on surround me for the pas few days. Let's forgive, forget and move on. I percaya takde rezeki but terkilan tetap ada. Dugaan nak tengok I gelabah-kuat ke idak. Hee.


I am going back to my hometown in a few minutes. Pray that I have a safe journey back home to Kedah. I believed the journey will be such a long time wasted on the road. And hoping that I can get ample-comfortable sleep in the car. (I am the useless co-driver. Haha). Also, lots of things can be settled when I am back home, like the legal stuff, outfit for my family, bunga pahar and VIP doorgift. 


So, let's have a pericous time with family. Selamat Hari Raya AidilAdha. Selamat Hari Raya Korban. And let us together remembering the sacrifice made by Nabi Ibrahim a.s. Moga-moga kisah Nabi Ibrahim a.s bisa menerbitkan lebih rasa kecintaan, kesedaraan bahawa 'selfish' is not the word that should be belong to human. Dan kita hidup hanya bukan untuk diri sendiri sahaja. 


Salam and happy holiday :)